Drake

*Well, since it has been almost two years since I last updated, I am just going to start from today and go forth.  There is no way I could catch up on the last two years there has been so much.  So two years later here is where we are starting with Drake.*

Drake turned six at the end of last month! I can't believe how fast these last six years went by!  He is in kindergarten this year and loves it.  His teacher Mrs. Kagie is great, and he has made a lot of friends in class.  When I went into volunteer at this class, she told me that she had never seen a class respond to one student quite the way this class had.  She said that he is the leader of his class, and whatever he says to do they all do it.  She is sad to lose him when we move after Christmas, and he his sad to go.

Both boys birthdays were pretty low key this year.  I just wasn't quite up to anything more this year with all we have had going on the last two months since Noemia was born.  On their birthday's I always let them chose what they want to do for the day.  Drake wanted to go to Chik-fil-a for lunch before school, so my mom, aunt, and cousin met us at chik-fil-a for lunch, later my dad felt left out so he let him choose what he wanted for dinner, and he chose Panda Express.  After meeting all the family there, we came back to my parents house and opened gifts and he had brownies and ice cream.

As a joke, my cousin had told him that Justin Bieber was going to come to his party because he was here visiting.  (Drake loves music, and loves his music, but will no longer admit it because his dad has brainwashed him into thinking he is not cool)  So she went and bought a life size cut out of him, and walked it in, you can tell drake is trying not to smile and show he likes it.

Drake is our little protector and responsible big brother.  He LOVES LOVES his new little sister.  He is always checking on her and wanting to help feed her her bottle, give her her bath etc.  It is amazing to see how much he has grown in maturity over the last year.  He is able to make friends with kids all age, I constantly have the eight and nine year old neighbors knocking on my door to see if Drake can come and play.  He is learning to read and is constantly reading words as we drive around or as we read books together.  I am so proud of how much he helps and how much he loves his siblings.  Him and Gavin are still the best of friends and the worst of enemies at times.  He loves BYU football, and watched almost every game with my dad this last year.  He can't wait until next fall when he is old enough to start. 

Okay so my kids are so much fun right now. They are each going through their own phases that drive me crazy but all together I love it. Here are some of the things they have done or said lately:

Drake- Is getting to be so old. He can be such a great helper and big brother when he wants to be. Right now he is very into playing games, for Christmas he got Chutes and Ladders, Sorry and Candy Land. We have to play all three at least twice a day. I try to push for Chutes and Ladders or Go Fish, they go much faster. His latest thing is "Mom, I want to do you a favor...I want you to play a game with me." Is that not the best favor. Or if he doesn't get what he wants or I tell him no, he tells me that I won't be able to go and see his friends, and he won't let me play with him.

A couple of weeks ago we were at Ze's MMA Academy and there were some girls there waiting for their class to start. They were probably around 6 and 8 or 9 maybe. Anyway the one girl was showing Drake her jiu-jitsu moves, and Drake goes and finds Ze and says: "Dad she has moves.." and then to the little girl "I've got moves, I've got the moon walk."

Gavin- Oh what happened to my sweet little easy going boy? Oh he turned three! It is not the terrible twos it is the terrible threes! He has what we like to call nuclear meltdowns. Let me tell you they can last up to 2 hrs, plus! Two weeks ago he had one that lasted 2 hours and 15 min. And he looked like a rabid dog, I am not joking. He gets a crazed look in his eye like he isn't even there,with his crazy curly afro, and then he starts spitting and he was spitting so much it started bubbling and looked foam. Oh and lets not forget screaming that he doesn't like me. Yes, I was so desperate at an hour (we were supposed to be meeting someone) that I tried a cold shower to see if it would shock him out of it. HUGE mistake! So I left him in his room with my mom here, and she said an hour later he just stopped and laughed and said he was happy and was ready to go get Mommy. When she brought him to where we were and I asked him, why he was so upset, (because he started crying when I told him he had to stop hitting the door with his feet and that we were going to go meet his friends to play indoor soccer). His answer: "Because I wanted to be angry, and now I want to be happy." Um, what I am I supposed to say to that?

On a cuter note. We have been practicing our full names, of everyone in my family, and their phone number. It his me that I should probably make sure they know in case of anything. Well Gavin got them all right away. So every once in a while we say them all and practice. Last Sunday my mom was driving home from Church with Gavin and doing the names, and when it came to his he said "Gavin Bola Dutra." Well for those of you who don't know we call him Bola, (ball in Portuguese) we have since he was born, don't know why we just did. Now, he thinks that is his full name. And I am so evil, I don't correct him because I think it is cute.

Update

Wow, life is happening so fast, I swear it was just August and now we are at the end of November! My little boy is going to be 4 on Monday, and it seems like he was a baby yesterday. It has been such a crazy year for us as many of you know...and I have to say I am grateful that this year is almost over. However, as crazy as it was I am grateful for all that has happened and all that we have gone through. It has brought many blessings upon us, and I know that many times our blessings come with the trials.

The holiday season is my favorite time of year. From the day after Halloween until New Years, I am listening to Christmas music, and it is the start of the holiday season. I have loved this time of the year for as long as I can remember, it seems there is just something different during this time. I feel especially grateful this year for all my blessings. So I just wanted to take a moment and express some of the things I am grateful for.

1. I am grateful for my Savior, and his love for me and my family. I am grateful for my testimony and understanding of His atonement, and how that applies to my daily life. I am grateful that he has been there to carry me, and encourage me, comfort and me and my family this past year.

2. I am grateful for the gospel of Jesus Christ in my life. It is what keeps me grounded and anchored when the rest of the world and even sometimes my own life is in chaos. It is where I can turn for peace and comfort and calm. I am grateful for my testimony in and knowledge that is is the true gospel, and for my understanding of how that applies to me.

3. I am grateful for an amazing husband. Who is patient, loving, understanding and kind, and above all who makes me laugh everyday. He is my best friend and is always there for me, and I am grateful for his being a worthy priesthood holder and such a good example to our boys. I love being married to him, and though some may think our life a little crazy, I wouldn't change a thing. It is so much more fun this way don't you think?

4. MY KIDS. How I love them! They may drive me to the brink of insanity sometimes, but it is all worth it. I wish I could just freeze time for a little bit, and not have them grow up right now. I love this phase of their lives, and especially love seeing them together. They are the best of friends and the greatest of brothers, and I truly hope and pray everyday that this bond they share now never changes. I feel so blessed to have been given these two sweet and crazy little boys to raise. Like most moms, feel though they are the ones I feel sometimes who do the teaching, it is amazing the simple things your children can remind you of, that sometimes you have forgotten.

5. My family, (extended Mom, Dad, brother sister aunts grandparents etc.) I love my family all of them. I truly feel blessed to have such a great family. I have wonderful parents, and grandparents who I am very close with and our always there for me and my kids. I am lucky to have siblings, (and now a new sister with nellie) who are my friends and I enjoy to spend time with and hangout with, and who love my kids. I married into an amazing family and gained two sisters who I love. (If Marilia ever moved back to brasil, I don't know what I would do, I think i would have to sink into a depression) And wonderful in-laws, who treat me as their daughter, and I can always count on. (Teresea please come home soon, we miss you! I MISS YOU). And last but not least my aunts and cousins. Who are truly more like Moms and Sisters. I thought everyone had the type of relationship I have with my aunts, but I have come to realize that they are truly unique. I call my aunts and talk to them often, and seek their advice, and they call me and see how life is. It is great it is like I have 3 other moms I can go to. I love them all and am grateful for all these family members who have supported me and loved me.

Okay well that is a way too long of post, but I just had to express some of the things I am so grateful for. I am going to truly try to get back on the blogging express. I am hoping that our lives will calm down and it will be easier to do.

Yes we are sitll alive.

Okay, well it has been almost three months since I last posted, where did the time go? This is just a quick note to say that yes we are still alive, and yes for those wondering we are still moving to California. Right now we have been living between Utah and California, well mostly the kids and I. Ze has pretty much been there since the end of May. It has been harder than I thought it would not having a house for a while and imposing on relatives. However, I am so grateful to wonderful parents on both our sides for letting us impose on them. Hopefully by the end of this month our lives will have settled down and we will be a little more settled as a family. We have had so much going on these past few months, the best thing being, my little brother was married on July 31! So that will be next post, and I will try to do it soon. Maybe even later today who knows, just for you Ashley there will be pictures.

We are moving, again, and yes it is really going to happen.

Many of you know what a roller coaster our lives have been this last year.  We are moving, we are staying, we are moving, staying, anyway you get the picture.  Well, in December when Ze took a job here I thought it was pretty much a done deal and we would never be moving back to California.  So I decorated my room, picked out paint colors for downstairs, and then I dared to unpack the boxes that had been sitting in our garage since the fall when I thought we were moving the last time.  And, as I unpacked them I thought watch Ze come home and tell me "Thanks, for unpacking but we are moving,"  well it wasn't that exact day just two weeks later.  

However, this time it is happening, our house is rented, we are moving out on Tuesday, so the renters can move in on Friday.   All of this happened in the two weeks since Ze told we are moving.  I guess when things are right they are right and everything just falls into place.  I will spend the summer back and forth between here and California, and we won't be moving into our house there until the end of august.  It is bittersweet, but actually I am really happy to be moving back, because it feels so right.  (Actually I have felt we should move there for the last year, I have just been waiting for Ze to feel the same way)  I am so excited to be back in our old ward, and to be around our friends again.  I will miss my family terribly, as will my boys.  Thankfully my mom works for the airlines so we will see them quite often I am sure.  

So for those of you here in Utah, we will miss you!  And for those of you there in California, we can't wait to see you and be there again.

Bedroom cont.

Here are some more pictures with the window treatment up and some odds and ends.  

My awesome dad made the box for my windows, and I LOVE it.  And I really love it because my curtains were on sale at target for $17 each and the wood and materials were only $30!  It came to less than half of everything else I had looked at.  THANKS AGAIN DAD!!!!
And a note out about my sticks in the corner by the T.V. everyone had bets on how long it would take my kids to turn them into weapons, happy to say, it has been a week and so far they haven't touched them!
You probably can't see but in the far corner we have a new nightstand from Ikea.   I wasn't sure I was going to like it so I only bought one to see if we would, but also because I thought I would save money and just paint the one that you can see.  However, Ze LOVED it and wants us to have another one WAHOO!  So any suggestions of what I could put on his, because I need something in that corner, would be great!

Well, after five years of marriage, I finally put up some wedding pictures in our room. I think this is my favorite part, and is defiantly Ze's.  
This is the material I will be making some European pillows out of for my bed.  It finally got here yesterday so, I will post pics with those one when i get them made. All and all I am really happy with our room, I LOVE it.  It has made a total difference in me being more organized, keeping things cleaner and I want to spend any free time I have in it.  I have to say thanks to my husband for painting, it for me, he did most of it. Thank you for being such a wonderful husband(Even did it on a day he had off) And a special thanks to my Dad who built the headboard and window valance.  I love you and am so grateful for all that you did.

Our next major purchase for our room will be a new fan!  One that is less of an eyesore

Bedroom pics

So this is what the room looked like after we painted and moved the bed.  I so wish I had remembered to take before pictures!  Well we got rid of the ugly navy blue curtains, and move our bed to the other wall.  And we finally put together the dresser we had bought in August when we thought we were moving.

This is the AWESOME! headboard my dad built for me!  Isn't he the best Dad ever!  It was even better than I had pictured it would be in my head.  THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!